Why Do You Keep Dwelling On The Past When All Your Really Doing Is Preventing A Bright And Promising Future????????

Females are famous for this and its happenining more and more..

Its understandable that you have been hurt by guys in your past and they may have taken advantage of your trust and love, but why when the right guy comes along that just wants to see you happy and is willing to put his all into making you happy...he gets pushed away and treated like the rest. This is very common nowadays.

I dont blame the females, the disrespectful, selfish guys are fully to blame in this situation. But all i want the females to do is to realize that there are better men that actually do care.

Ya feel me????????????

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Permalink Reply by Angeleque on January 20, 2010 at 11:04pm: Hi Cam I'm Angeleque. I'm trying to understand your perspective... there's a lot that SEEMS to be going un said....; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Eddie Hicks on February 7, 2010 at 2:00pm: I would agree...I'm treading softly because I don't want to get jumped by the sisters, but while I definitely agree that we men are to a large degree responsible for the bitterness and resentment feel toward all men for causing so much of their pain, sisters must also take responsibility for the choices they make. While some women have been very careful and even prayerful in choosing their partners, many others have gone into relationships knowing that he wasn't right for them and chose to be with him anyway. Before got married, I was dating a young lady who was coming out of a relationship where the guy really hurt her---almost on a regular basis. When she met me, she said that she was great God had sent her someone who could help her move on. But for the next couple of years, I found myself in this "love triangle" with her and the exboyfriend who caused her so much pain. I couldn't understand that at all. I'm not trying to dodge any responsibility as a man, I'm just offering something to consider that might at least to a degree, help women to avoid the pain that hurts so much.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by King James on February 16, 2010 at 3:16pm: stop blaming folks for ur bitterness and unhappiness..

actually no one cares. No one gets saved anymore.. we save ourselves. Fairy tales hardly exist..

Let's get it.

But naw.. CAM.. men aren't fully to blame.

lol @ females are famous for this

you all over the place homie; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Just Kim on February 26, 2010 at 1:35pm: I understood you loud and clear Cameron. It is sad to say but it is true. I don't blame the selfish guys completely because we as women must learn how to direct our emotions in the right place. If you have not figured it out, I too have been hurt in the past but I put the blame where it belongs, on the guy that actually hurt me and not all men. So while this is true we women need to get ourselves into check and grow up. Girls mope, women grow!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Nyya L. Bethay on March 5, 2010 at 2:16pm: LOL I completely agree with you on this statement. Not that I have never done this, but I have come to the realization that if I want that right man to come into my life and love me like he says he want to do, I have to let go of past hurts because all that does is hinder me from the man that GOD has for me. So as a woman I must say this was a great post, yet some women dont realize the affect that it has on the FEW GOOD MEN that is left!!!

NEVER LET YOUR PAST DICTATE YOUR FUTURE; ▶ Reply to This